There is More to See

Matthew Vire • April 1, 2022

What Else Would We See if We Chose to Look?

I lost a dear friend in late 2017 to ovarian cancer. She was vibrant, inspiring, kind, and extraordinarily beloved. She helped people discover their creativity, believe in themselves, and see themselves as artists. We who knew her still feel the void of her absence. And yet the loss of her also brought with it unexpected grace. When we gathered to celebrate her life, tell stories of our time with her, laugh, and cherish our memories of her, we looked deep into our grief and found our Love staring back at us. We saw this Love because we did not look away from the pain of our loss but leaned into it with eyes and hearts wide open. As a result, we experienced not only our grief but magnificent gratitude as well.

When we see something displeasing -- however we may define it -- and commit to our own judgment of what we would rather not accept, we attach ourselves to a limited perspective. We can only see what we wish to reject from this limited place, no matter what else may be present. However, our perspectives need not be fixed, and we can look again. Maybe some ugliness will always remain, but that is rarely all there is. As the Dalai Lama has said, "Attachment constrains our vision so that we are not able to see things from a wider perspective." How might we see things if we seek different perspectives whenever life challenges us?

There is a story of van Gogh buying a pair of shoes in a flea market and wearing them through the mud of Parisian streets for some time. He would later paint them –– dirt, scuffs, and all. Van Gogh sought -- and found -- the presence of beauty in places and things we often consider mundane or even ugly.

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By Rev. Dr. Carolyn Scanlan-Holmes • October 29, 2026
Pastor Carolyn shares news of Lea Ann’s new role and invites you to celebrate her four years of loving and teaching our children on Sunday, November 8.
By Helen Payne • October 28, 2026
Each year at The Garden, we collect donated laundry baskets filled with specific household items to be given to families in need. These items cannot be purchased with SNAP funds, and for those living in poverty it can be difficult to afford these essentials. If you would like to donate, you can either make a monetary contribution and we will shop, or you can purchase and fill a basket and bring it to The Garden by Sunday, November 29. The following items are requested for each donation: 1 Large, Quality Laundry Basket 1 Bar of Soap 4 Toothbrushes 1 Large or 2 Smaller (4 or 5 oz) Toothpaste 1 Large (42-50 oz) Laundry Detergent 1 Large (15-16 oz) Dish Soap 1 Bottle (8 oz) Liquid Hand Soap 1 Roll Paper Towels 4-6 Rolls of Toilet Paper 1 Box of Facial Tissue 1 Large (16 oz) Bottle of Shampoo 1 Bottle (18 oz) of All-Purpose Cleaner We will also gratefully accept cash donations and volunteers to shop with.
By Rev. Dr. Carolyn Scanlan-Holmes • October 28, 2026
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By Rev. Dr. Carolyn Scanlan-Holmes • October 19, 2026
 In World War II, a “Dear John” letter was synonymous with breaking up. When The Garden was founded some 30 years ago, we sent our own “Dear John” letter to the United Methodist Church. We felt the path the traditional church had taken was too narrow, and The Garden wanted to champion “many paths and one purpose.” However, about 10 years ago, we realized we needed to co-parent this message of hope and love, so we reluctantly joined the Conference as a UMC congregation. This year, I’ve had the opportunity to get reacquainted with our Methodist roots and John Wesley himself. For me, it has felt like going to a class reunion and falling back in love with a high school sweetheart—realizing that even though we took different paths, we still have so much in common, and well, maybe it's time to get back together? This Sunday, we will look at how The Garden has lived into the very core message that John Wesley preached. We will consider how being part of the UMC connection can help us transform the world with God's love, and how The Garden can help the UMC see that there are truly many loving paths. Join us this Sunday for “Dear John.”
By Jerry Zehr • October 13, 2026
What makes some people extraordinarily generous, even when they have so little to give, while others who have so much find it difficult to share? In his letter to the Corinthians, Paul describes the Macedonian churches, whose poverty and hardships did not diminish their generosity. Instead, their joy overflowed into giving. Through personal stories and encounters with unexpected generosity, we'll explore what happens when grace becomes more than something we receive. It becomes something we share. Grace isn't something we hold on to. It's something we allow to flow through us. As The Garden reflects on its future, we have an opportunity to ask a deeper question: What kind of community do we want to create together? What would it look like to become a community where love, compassion, acceptance, and generosity overflow into the lives of others? Perhaps the greatest gift we have to offer isn't what we possess, but who we are and how we choose to share ourselves with the world. When grace overflows, generosity isn't something we have to do. It's something we get to do.
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By Rev. Dr, Carolyn Scanlan-Holmes • September 29, 2026
Although we define our world with borders, walls, and ideologies, World Communion Sunday brings us a simple reality: we belong to each other. This Sunday, we gather around a table that expands across the globe, a table of radical hospitality where all are fed, all are valued, and all are loved. Together, we commit to the collective work of peace, justice, and healing for our planet. Join us as we break bread and build bridges.
By Rev. Dr. Carolyn Scanlan-Holmes • September 22, 2026
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