Best Buddies
Rev. Dr. Carolyn Scanlan-Holmes • February 5, 2024
The Garden's 1st Quarter 2024 Big Give Recipient
This Sunday at The Garden, we welcome friends from our first quarter Big Give recipient, Best Buddies Indiana. Best Buddies International represents a global volunteer movement that creates opportunities for one-to-one friendships, integrated employment, leadership development, and inclusive living for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD). This weekend, we will have an opportunity to meet and engage with some of the artists who have donated the art work that has been on display in our hallway in support of Best Buddies. Join us Sunday for a special day of Celebration and to learn more about our local Best Buddies Chapter.

On a crisp October morning, something unexpected happened at a community breakfast in Fishers, Indiana: Christmas came early. But this wasn't about jumping the gun on holiday decorating or premature caroling. Instead, it was about something much more meaningful: using the story of Christmas to build understanding across faith traditions.                                                                                     A Gathering of Neighbors                                                                                     The Niagara Foundation, a national organization dedicated to fostering relationships between people of different cultures and faiths, hosts quarterly community breakfasts through its central Indiana chapter, operated by the Turkish Muslim community. These gatherings bring together anyone who shares a simple but powerful desire to break down barriers and build bridges in our increasingly diverse world.                                                                                     At their community center in Fishers, the Foundation regularly invites speakers from various faith traditions to share perspectives with the group. On October 11, 2025, it was Betty Brandt's turn. As Program Director at the Garden Community Church, Betty chose to explore the topic of Christmas, familiar to most yet full of surprising history.                                                                                     The History Behind the Holiday                                                                                     Betty's presentation explored how Christmas as we know it came to be. She explained that December 25 wasn't celebrated as Jesus' birthday until 330 AD, when Pope Julius decreed it "The Feast of the Nativity." This date wasn't chosen randomly. Appropriating the pagan holiday allowed early Christians to continue celebrating the pagan winter solstice, the return of the sun, with its lights, candles, and festivities, while assigning new Christian meaning to these traditions.                                                                                     From there, Betty traced the evolution of beloved Christmas traditions including the transformation of Saint Nicholas into Santa Claus, the development of Christmas carols, the adoption of evergreen trees as symbols of eternal life, and the creation of live nativity scenes. Each tradition, she showed, carried layers of cultural adaptation and meaning.                                                                                     A Story That Captures Everything                                                                                     Betty concluded with a true story from December 24, 1944, during the brutal Battle of the Bulge in World War II. As a fierce snowstorm raged, three American soldiers and three German soldiers took refuge in the home of a Belgian woman and her son. In that small house, on Christmas Eve, these young men put down their weapons. Together, they accepted the hospitality offered to them, shared a meal, and for one night, chose humanity over hatred.                                                                                     This story captured the essence of what brought people to that October breakfast. Just as those soldiers had done decades earlier, those present desired to put aside differences, enjoy a wonderful meal together, and build bridges across the divides that too often separate us.                                                                                     Looking Ahead                                                                                     The next Niagara Foundation community breakfast will take place in 2026 and will feature a panel discussion on fasting practices across different faith traditions. While no date has been set yet, the event promises another opportunity to learn, connect, and discover the common threads that run through our diverse beliefs.                                                                                     Whereas our world often emphasizes what divides us, gatherings like these remind us that our shared humanity is stronger than our differences. Sometimes it takes a story about Christmas—told in October, in a Muslim community center, to a room full of neighbors—to help us remember that truth.                                                                                                  To learn more about the Niagara Foundation and upcoming community breakfast events,                                              visit their website                                  .
 

Dear Friends,                                                                                                            Please read these two important announcements:                                                                                                            First: We’re excited to share that The Garden has now officially moved into our new home at 7171 North Pennsylvania Street, Indianapolis, Indiana 46240.                                                                                                            This is a joyful new chapter for our community, and we’re so grateful for the ways you’ve helped us grow into it. If you give to The Garden through your bank, IRA, or BillPay service, please take a moment to update our new address with your financial institution so your gifts continue to reach us smoothly.                                                                                                            Second: We hope you will be with us for our Annual All‑Church Meeting on Sunday, October 5, immediately following the 9 a.m. service at the church.                                                                                                             As a United Methodist congregation, this is one of those “official business” gatherings we hold each year. It’s short and simple—we’ll share financial updates, answer questions, and take care of the necessary business of being a church family.                                                                                                                         Even in our untraditional way of doing things, this meeting is a reminder that we’re in this together—tending The Garden with love, transparency, and care.                                                                                                                                     With gratitude and joy,                                                                                                                        Carolyn and The Garden Leadership Team                                                                                                            P.S. Please reply to this email if you have any questions we can answer!
 











